As graduation season approaches and many young adults get ready to head off to college or begin life on their own, parents often find themselves juggling to-do lists filled with dorm supplies, class schedules, and health insurance plans. But there’s one important task that often gets overlooked, making sure your child has the right legal documents in place in case of an emergency.
Once your child turns 18, you no longer have the automatic legal authority to step in and help with medical or financial matters—even in a crisis. That’s why setting up a Financial Power of Attorney, HIPAA Authorization, and Health Care Directive is a smart and essential move.
What Are These Documents and Why Do They Matter?
1. Power of Attorney (POA)
This gives you the legal ability to manage your child’s finances, like paying bills, accessing bank accounts, or signing legal documents, if they become ill or injured and can’t do it themselves. The document can be set to effective immediately or only upon your child’s incapacity.
2. HIPAA Authorization (Global)
This document allows doctors and hospitals to share medical information with you. Without it, you may be left in the dark if your child is hospitalized or needs care wherever your child is in the U.S.
3. Advance Health Care Directive (aka Medical Power of Attorney)
This allows your child to name someone , such as a parent, to make medical decisions on their behalf if they’re unable to do so.
Why This Matters More Than You Think:
They’re Legal Adults Now
At 18, your child is legally independent. Without the proper documents, even you, Mom or Dad, can be shut out of critical decisions.
Emergencies Can Happen Anytime and Anywhere
Accidents, illnesses, or even a mental health crisis can arise unexpectedly. These documents allow you to act fast when every minute counts.
You Can Help Manage Finances
If your child is hospitalized or studying abroad and unable to handle their finances, you’ll be able to step in seamlessly.
Peace of Mind for Everyone
Your child knows you have their back. You know you won’t face roadblocks in a time of need.
Three Steps on How to Get Started:
- Have the Conversation
Talk to your child about why these documents are important. Emphasize that it’s not about control, it’s about protection and peace of mind.
- Meet with an Estate Planning Attorney
A qualified attorney will ensure the documents comply with California law and meet your child’s specific needs.
- Keep Copies Handy
Store them in a safe place and consider sharing a copy with your child’s college, doctor’s office, or anyone else who may need it.
Sending your child into the world is both exciting and emotional. While you can’t shield them from every risk, you can be prepared to help in a moment of crisis. These legal documents are a simple, proactive way to stay connected, and protected, during your child’s next chapter.
Don’t wait for something to go wrong. A short meeting today can make all the difference tomorrow.
We offer our clients a package called the “College Protection Plan” that has the right power of attorney documents, HIPAA, and health care directive to ensure their children are protected. If you need help protecting your young adult child after they have turned 18, please reach out to our Intake Department at 760-448-2220 or at https://www.geigerlawoffice.com/contact.cfm. We have offices in San Diego County (Carlsbad) and Orange County (Laguna Niguel), but we assist can families throughout California as well.
